One Focused Day Toward Oneness

God designed marriage to reflect His love and unity. When a marriage is in crisis, that vision can feel out of reach.

A Marriage Intensive is one focused day, grounded in God’s Word, designed to help couples move from the brink toward real alignment with Him and with each other. It is a powerful turning point where lasting transformation can begin.

We currently lead these Intensives ourselves and will soon train other mentor couples to lead them as well.

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Who This Is For:

These Intensives are for Christian couples whose marriage is in crisis, stuck in painful patterns, or on the brink of divorce. If you feel hopeless or that nothing else has worked, this day is for you.

Pre-Intensive Preparation

• Complete a confidential survey about the current state of your marriage

• Each of you takes a StrengthsFinder assessment

• Write a short, heartfelt letter to your spouse (we provide guided topics; the letters are read during the day in a safe setting)

• Join a 30-minute virtual overview call so we can understand your situation and help you prepare  

These steps allow us to personalize the day and create a safe, focused environment for real progress.

Full-Day Schedule (9:00 AM – 5:00 PM)

Here’s how the day unfolds:

9:00 – 9:15 - Welcome, overview, and housekeeping

9:15 – 9:45 - Explanation of the process and how we will work together

9:45 – 10:45 - Connection: Reading your letters to each other in a safe setting

10:45 – 10:55 - Short break

10:55 – 11:05 - Marriage God’s Way: Aligning individually with God, then with each other

11:05 – 11:35 - Marital Balance: Releasing unrealistic expectations and finding fulfillment in Christ

11:35 – 12:00 - Applying the Four Laws of Marriage (Jimmy Evans)

12:00 – 12:15 - Strengths Finder results: How your complementary strengths make you stronger together

12:15 – 1:15 - Lunch (optional working lunch)

1:15 – 1:30 - Oneness demonstration

1:30 – 2:20 - Transformation: How beliefs drive emotions + introduction to the THINK or SINK model

2:20 – 2:30 - Break (time to reflect on your #1 issue)

2:30 – 4:30 - Working through your main issue using the THINK or SINK model

4:30 – 4:45 - Sealing the day with an agreed declaration

4:45 – 4:55 - Review progress and next steps

4:55 – 5:00 - Close in prayer and short survey